How It Works
This isn’t a linear process. Real change doesn’t happen in a straight line. It’s more like a spiral. You’ll revisit the same patterns at deeper levels, and that’s how real change sticks.
Evidence-based coaching means we integrate research with your actual context. We focus on behavioral patterns, nervous system responses, and decision loops—not generic frameworks.
We track what’s working, measure progress, and hold you accountable to real change. Not just expensive conversations.
We Spot Pink Elephants
Most of our work is spotting pink elephants: the unspoken dynamics and patterns everyone sees but no one addresses.
It’s the tension in the room everyone knows but no one names. The manager everyone knows is struggling but nobody confronts. The stress reactions driving decisions everyone pretends are strategic.
In coaching, we start by naming the pink elephants, both in your organization and in yourself. Once you see the pattern, you can change it. That’s where the real work begins.
The Coaching Process
Step 1:
Discovery Call
This isn't a sales call. We'll talk about what's going on and whether this is the right fit. Not everyone is ready for this work, and that's okay.
Step 2:
First Session
We'll figure out what you're actually working on. This is often different from what you thought when you walked in. You'll leave with clarity on the real work.
Step 3:
Ongoing Sessions
Short, focused sessions. 20-45 minutes of coaching, then time to actually do something with it. Between sessions, you have text and email support when you need quick clarity.
Step 4:
Progress Reviews
We track what's working, what's not, and what patterns keep showing up. We measure progress, not just talk about it.
What Makes This Evidence-Based Coaching?
Evidence-based coaching integrates research with practitioner expertise and real human context. It’s not just asking what works—it’s asking why it works, for whom, and under what circumstances.
This isn’t about rigid models or frameworks. It’s about making informed decisions in real time based on what’s actually happening with you.
Where traditional coaching focuses on goals, conversations, and insight, evidence-based coaching focuses on behavioral patterns, nervous system responses, decision loops, and what’s happening beneath the surface.
We draw from organizational psychology, human development, and neuropsychology—but apply it to your specific context, not a generic leadership model.
- Pre and post assessments
- Every session is measured by both of us
- Pattern tracking across sessions
- Progress reporting (for organizations: aggregated team data)
Coaching vs. Therapy
Helium is coaching, not therapy.
Therapy focuses on healing the past. Coaching focuses on how you operate now and where you want to go next. If therapy is the rearview mirror, coaching is the navigation system.
